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Mom’s Gifts

February 28, 2018 By kimwheeler 18 Comments

Today is my mom Suzanne’s birthday, well actually it is the 29th, Leap Year. She always insisted it was the last day of February, not the first of March if we didn’t have a Leap Year, so I will celebrate her today with a Manhattan, her favorite cocktail.

It has been three years since we lost my sweet mom and though the pain is a little less, I seem to miss her more each passing year. There are so many things I wish we could chat about…so many things she is missing, especially with my boys she loved so much and her other grandkids. On this day and many others I can only cope by being grateful for all she has given me and passed on to me. Some I didn’t even realize were her doing until lately.

So many things my mom instilled in us and also made us passionate for.  She was lovely, kind to everyone and yet sadly a terrible worrier. I got that too. She was always taking the side of the underdog and injustice- whether it was a kid at school or prejudice at the supermarket, my mom called it out, sometimes embarrassingly so for us at the time. Now I think back with pride at my mom’s bravery.

My mom laughing with my kids as she always was.

My mom was a mini philanthropist in her own way. She gave to little charities, especially animal ones regularly. Later when she had more money, always had a little wad of bills in her hand for the busboy, the waiters and waitresses, the man on the street and so many others. My mom would go out of her way to find the girl with the kind smile and make sure she got the money, sometimes to our exasperation. Now I see it was her way of spreading love and being grateful for what she had.

My mom was the first person to speak out about women’s rights that I knew of. I remember her passion during the Billie Jean King- Bobbie Riggs tennis match which we watched in earnest and cheered when a WOMAN beat a man! My mom said we were Woman Libbers and woman deserved equality and the same rights was any man, and I believed it. I was eight at the time. My mom would have loved that Battle of the Sexes film and would be thrilled about the Women’s Marches that have taken place in the past two years.

Last week watching the Olympics, I missed her more than ever. My mom was a huge Olympic fan and thanks to her, I have watched every one since 1972 when Olga Korbet of the U.S.S.R. was a little gymnastic darling and wowed us. My mom’s biggest sport love was ice skating, much to my dad’s dismay as she watched every ice competition ever.  Mom grew up in Wisconsin and loved ice skating on ponds and would bike long ways just to skate with her friends. We scrutinized many a ice performance together and she loved the really artistic skaters, as do I now too. She would have loved Adam Rippon and the commentary by Johnny and Tara of this Olympics. After I saw the film I Tonya, all I could think of was what my mom would have thought and how fun it would have been to dish about that whole Tonya Harding thing again…

Thanks to my mom I love Wimbledon and playing tennis. She got me started at an early age as she loved it herself and we had a tiny club, Dunnets around the corner from our house. Mom liked that I could ride my bike there and she bought me one of the first Prince aluminum racquets in high school when everyone else still had wooden ones. We watched many a Wimbledon together and always loved Chris Evert’s feminine style best of all the players. She has missed many a good match and would be thrilled Serena just had her first baby.

Thanks to my mom I love cats, buttered noodles, Audrey Hepburn, Breakfast at Tiffanys, little children, old folks, Hollywood gossip, Doris Day, Carly Simon, beautiful clothes, people dressed neat as a pin ( her words), being at home, sitting in the sun, and yellow roses and flowers.

I plan to bring my mom some today.

Kim

With my parents in 2014. One of the last and best photo we have of us.

My mom’s original Breakfast at Tiffany’s album which I still play and love.

 

 

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  1. Kelley says

    February 28, 2018 at 8:24 pm

    Ah Kim, you have so many beautiful memories of your Mom!

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    • kimwheeler says

      March 1, 2018 at 4:51 am

      Kelley, I do and I am lucky I know. xo

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  2. Kathryn says

    February 28, 2018 at 8:55 pm

    Girl. I teared up when I saw the photo! Your mom must be so proud of you! And how tall griffeth had gotten! Your beautiful family you share with all of us! Your fans! Ps. My dad is gone 25 Years this may and I miss him still! Does not seem real! How time goes bye. Much 💕

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    • kimwheeler says

      March 1, 2018 at 4:50 am

      Kathryn thank you. i love that picture. Wow 25 years for your dad? Time doesn’t make us miss them any less does it? Thinking of you too. xo

      Reply
  3. Dani says

    February 28, 2018 at 9:22 pm

    Kim, your Mom was such a bright light and so are you!
    I’m so sorry you miss her so but she deserves to be missed, and she would be so proud of you and happy with the way you continue to live your life. You honour her by doing so.
    Today is my son’s birthday… I think the last day of February is a special day! Thinking of you dear friend xxx

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    • kimwheeler says

      March 1, 2018 at 4:48 am

      Dani thank you. You are very sweet to say that. So is it Ol’Rascal’s birthday? He is a unique and cool person too. It must be a special day! xoxo

      Reply
  4. Lisa says

    March 1, 2018 at 1:57 am

    What a beautiful post.
    It seems like you’ve inherited your mother’s kindness and activism. I imagine she was so proud of you – I hope I’m not overstepping to say that.

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    • kimwheeler says

      March 1, 2018 at 4:52 am

      Lisa, thank you. I guess I am like mom in that activist regard! No it’s nice of you.

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  5. Aunt Joan says

    March 1, 2018 at 2:33 am

    Kimi
    She was the first thing I thought of this morning, what a beautiful tribute, we will have these wonderful memories forever in our hearts, we all miss her so much, thinking of you and the family, ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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    • kimwheeler says

      March 1, 2018 at 4:54 am

      Aunt Joan. I know- me too. All day today and I just can still hear her calling me on the phone like she did every afternoon. Thanks and love to you too. xoxo

      Reply
  6. DeAnne says

    March 1, 2018 at 5:32 am

    Thank you for sharing such beautiful memories of your Mom. She would be so proud of you!

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    • kimwheeler says

      March 1, 2018 at 5:53 am

      Aww DeAnne thanks so much for saying that. xx

      Reply
  7. Cindy says

    March 1, 2018 at 6:09 pm

    What a beautiful tribute to your dear mother. I’m so glad I’ve met you and share a love of tennis and a lovely friendship!

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    • kimwheeler says

      March 2, 2018 at 11:54 pm

      Cindy you are sweet. Thanks so much. I feel lucky to be friends too. You know what it’s like losing your mom last year. Thinking of you too. xx

      Reply
  8. LA CONTESSA says

    March 2, 2018 at 11:25 pm

    What happened to OLGA KORBIT?ANYONE KNOW?
    Would LOVE to see a photo of her today……..Guess if I GOOGLE IT MIGHT HAPPEN!
    YOU look like your MOTHER………..what an ADORABLE FAMILY!
    SHE TAUGHT YOU WELL…………
    My Mother loved to SHOP……….I guess I got that passed down TOO!Especially for BARGINS!!!!!!
    GOOD MEMORIES!
    Those you will have FOREVER!!!!!
    XO

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    • kimwheeler says

      March 2, 2018 at 11:53 pm

      Elizabeth I will Google her. She was darling with her little smile. I always like her best. My mom liked to shop too. I miss doing that with her. I know you must be missing your mama too. Somany of us now are without our moms. We just have to keep them alive in our hearts. xoxo

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  9. Deede says

    March 3, 2018 at 3:12 pm

    Kim, Thank you for sharing your beautiful memories of your Mom…From your words, I met an extraordinary woman who sounds like fun and sass and adventure stirred up with love…Wouldn’t she have a hoot at all of the craziness of our world today?!…From a vinyl cover for Breakfast at Tiffany’s, to her buttered noodles, and causes and generousity , she comes across in your words
    as someone to know, love and have fun with… She will never be gone as long as your memories keep her alive and vibrant…
    Happy birthday a day or so late…I hope you always include wonderful memory posts on her end of February…close to March
    celebration…
    (May I add this is a special time of the year to be born…from someone who celebrates a birthday next week…smile)
    Best!

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    • kimwheeler says

      March 4, 2018 at 11:41 pm

      What a sweet note. Thank you so much Deede. It made me laugh and especially the sass part as it is so true. I know it’s amazing to me how much things have changed just the three years she’s been gone. Of course you have a birthday next week- unique people!! Hope it’s a special one and thank you always for the kindess! xo

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